Connections/disconnections 1. Feeling uncomfortable at the cowboy's house, being in a new home , being a guest in someones house can be weird, I can connect with that. However, i have never been uprooted to a new country to live with strangers , so it is hard to understand how she feels. 2. The fried chicken, they are not used to that. They are used to fresh chicken. Having to get used to ethnic foods or something I am not comfortable with is something I cannot connect with.