“You can forget about going to that university. You’re going to be a failure, too, just like them, so don’t even bother going,” this quotation is enough disturbing because it conveys the negative message to an aspirant who wants to study further and accomplish the future goals (p. 33). To build a dream, one needs the devotion and encouragement as well from their parents but these statements bring the negative connotations. I can feel what Grande went through when she heard the statement. This brings the concept of the negative assumption of someone that can break someone’s dream into pieces.